Let's talk Necks

The nape, the stem, the head holder.

So I’m having lunch with one of my friends and we’re talking about aging, kids, loosing weight, etc and she says can we be honest to each other about our looks?

A little taken back but of course I said - sure (nervous laugh). I love honesty and I can only see my self in the mirror - not real life, so hit me with the truth.